There's a wee bit of the fight in you these days, and what's really needed is for you to simply give yourself (and others around you!) a break. That's because your not seeing things all that clearly, and you need time to breath and get some oxygen to those little gray cells. Once you do that, all will become clear. When in doubt, when in struggle, back off, and take some deep breaths. The scene will shift before your eyes, and then you'll know what action to take.